Getting Married in San Francisco, City Hall

 

How much does it cost to get married at San Francisco City Hall?

The marriage license itself is $99, and the civil ceremony is $75. There are also options to rent spaces for more private weddings on either the 4th floor or the Mayor’s Balcony, starting at $1002; visit or call the Events Office at City Hall  for more info (room 495, 415-554-6086).

What kind of reservations/appointments do I need to make? You’ll need to make two appointments: one to get your marriage license, and one for the ceremony. You can get your license up to 90 days before the ceremony date, which is recommended for private ceremonies, but not necessarily for civil ceremonies. If you get your marriage license the same day as your ceremony, I recommend setting that appointment an hour before the ceremony time. Appointments can be made up to 90 days in advance, so if you want to get married on a popular date or time (Friday afternoons are the busiest for weddings), make sure you book your appointments as soon as you can.

How do we get a marriage license? To get a marriage license in California, you must be 18 years old, but you do not have to be a California or United States resident or citizen (yay for international elopements!). Both parties must be present and have legal photo identification. Once you’ve made your appointment for your marriage license, you’ll pick it up from the County Clerk’s office (room 168) on the first floor.

Do we need to bring witnesses? For a public marriage license, you only need one witness, and you can have two sign your marriage license. For confidential marriages, you don’t need a witness . You photographer can absolutely sign as your witness (it’s always an honor to be asked!). Bring your witness(es) with you to your ceremony appointment.

Where will the ceremony be? Most civil ceremonies will be in the Rotunda, on the 2nd floor at the top of the grand staircase. During slower times, couples have asked to have their ceremonies to be held up on the 4th floor or in other spots around the building. It’s up to the judge who will be marrying you (you’ll meet them when you get your marriage license), but if it’s a slow day and there aren’t any ceremonies immediately before or after yours, it’s worth a shot to ask them.

Who will marry us? There are a number of judges/justices of the peace who rotate performing civil ceremonies. All the ones I’ve met have been lovely and wonderful; I’ve been told by a couple judges that after days of hearing depressing court cases, performing marriage ceremonies is one of the best parts of their jobs. If you’re having a private ceremony, City Hall recommends that you use your own officiant, in case they overbook with civil ceremonies.

Is there a time limit for our ceremony? Civil ceremonies are limited to 10 minute time slots, as there may be more couples getting married either immediately before or after you. I generally suggest taking any formal or family photos away from the ceremony spot so that everything moves quickly and efficiently. Rented spaces are available by the hour.

How many guests can we bring? For civil ceremonies, you’re allowed 6 guests. However, it is a public space, so anyone can be there (which means ceremonies may be less private than you like). I’ve shot a few weddings there with way more than 6 guests in attendance, and so far, I’ve never seen a judge turn people away (if anything, they always invite everyone in a bit closer). Private ceremonies on the 4th floor and Mayor’s Balcony can hold up to 100 guests.

Is there parking nearby or public transit to San Francisco City Hall? Yes! There is an parking garage underneath the Civic Center Plaza; the entrance is on McAllister Street, between Polk (also called Dr Carlton B Goodlett Pl on that block) and Larkin. City Hall is also close to the Civic Center station, where both BART and Muni stop.

What is the best day/time to get married there? Civil ceremony reservations are available Monday through Friday between 10:00 a.m. and 3:30 p.m. The best time depends on what kind of vibe you want. I’ve found Monday-Wednesday, especially in the mornings, are really quiet and a slower time for ceremonies, which means you may have your pick of ceremony location, and you probably won’t have as many people in the building to work around. Fridays, especially in the afternoon, are generally a very busy time for weddings, but there’s something really fun and unique about this experience; everyone is excited, the building is filled with love, and if you like watching awards shows for the dresses, Fridays at City Hall will definitely be your thing!

Do you have any other advice for couples getting married at City Hall? I asked a few of my former City Hall couples for their advice, and here’s what they had to say:

  • At City Hall you need time for the security line, time to get a lay of the land, time to gawk at the building, time to figure out where the balcony in question is, etc. Had we breezed through the office formalities and gone right up to our ceremony spot, my mother would have missed the ceremony. Basically, just make sure to let guests know that they should build in some buffer time.
  • My advice for the weekday private ceremony: Don’t bring too much stuff. You only have the space for an hour and there isn’t a garbage can.
  • I was so stressed out about not being able to get our license for some reason: What if we forgot something important? What if they deny us for some reason? If for some reason we were denied our license, it would have ruined our already-planned-out day. I think if I could do it again, I’d have us get our marriage license beforehand so I wouldn’t have to worry about it the morning of. Also, if a couple is planning on having a lunch/dinner right after their city hall ceremony, I would absolutely recommend choosing a place within walking distance of city hall ( I would totally recommendAbsinthe for a reception). It just made things so much easier for us and our guests, especially in a city where parking can be difficult!

The Rotunda is beautiful and free! Things to consider about this location: this location can’t be guaranteed, you are limited to a maximum of 6 guests, there is somewhat limited privacy (it is adjacent to the elevators and administrative offices), and you are allowed a maximum of 10 minutes for the ceremony and photos. (Depending on the day/time, other couples next in line to be married may be standing near by during your ceremony).

How long does the whole process take?
It takes approximately 30 minutes to obtain the marriage license. It is recommended that if you plan to obtain the marriage license on the SAME day as the ceremony, that you book the two appointments at least 1 hour apart. The actual ceremony lasts about 5 minutes, with a total of 10 minutes given to each couple, when the ceremony is performed in the Rotunda by the County Clerk. Ceremonies conducted on the 4th Floor or Mayor’s Balcony, or those performed by a private officiant, may last up to 1 hour.

Snacks! We highly recommend that you bring a few snacks, water and chapstick. 
 
After the ceremony, then what?
Breathe….relax…..celebrate! 

Note: Original identity documents in a foreign language must be translated into English by a Court certified translator or American Translators Association (ATA) certified translator and must be presented along with the translation.